ENROLL in letter-writing PROJECT


I help others write letters to the most important people in their lives. I call them Forever Letters.

What are Forever Letters?

Love-rich time capsules of language that preserve your voice, emotions and connection. Communication that matters.

Why letter-writing? Why now?

Letter-writing is not new, but it's a lost art... and a gateway to transformative, meaningful connection. We talk about net worth—assets, belongings, tangible owned things—but that’s not the whole story of what’s valuable. Emotions are intangible, but of supreme worth when it comes to life’s meaning. Letter-writing allows us to capture the emotions that give our lives meaning.

Offerings

Independent Guided Project

For those wanting virtual letter-writing inspiration and accountability each month for a full year. Only $48.

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Workshops & Retreats

For those wanting a group letter-writing experience (at an organization or at home). Let's brainstorm + plan.

One-on-One Consulting

For those wanting individual + personalized help transforming big emotions into polished letters.

Kinds of Forever Letters

Launch Letter

Moment-marking love letter on the brink of a loved one's big launch (graduation, career, move, marriage, parenthood).

Legacy Letter

End-of-life love letter to a loved one that accompanies a will and becomes a valuable part of one's legacy.

Life Letter

Time-capsule love letter that preserves a phase of life that's ordinary at present, but will one day exist only in memories.

Leader Letter

Professional, respect-infused letter that thoughtfully communicates sensitive information about a transition or circumstance pertaining to a work place, shared community or environment.

Listen Letter

Personal-reveal or personal-expression love letter that thoughtfully communicates delicate information about oneself for a beloved reader.

Meet Lindsay.

Your Writing Partner

Dear You,

In a world that's moving fast, communicating emotion has never been more important. Your love is the greatest asset of this life, and your written words are in more demand than you realize.

I help people with valuable relationships write what I call Forever Letters. These are letters that get saved because when it comes to net worth, these letters are treasure. Our written words have the power to ignite emotions, provide comfort, strengthen connection, heal pain and inspire hope.

As a lifelong letter writer, former English teacher and natural empath, this work is my honor and joy. Let's connect.

xo Lindsay

Memories are tricky—fading and changing with time—but words can be precisely preserved.

The Benefits of Letter-Writing:

Whether you are planning for end-of-life or wanting to capture some aspect of your lived experience, forever-letter-writing tends to be overwhelmingly positive, important, purposeful, relieving, and (surprisingly) joyful. You'll gain:

01

Closeness

Letter-writing is the practice of prioritizing meaningful connection. Research has proven that the key to a fulfilling life is having and maintaining strong relationships. Letter-writing is a direct and effective way to invest in your relationships. Prepare to discover a deeper, soul-level connection with your person once you've landed on actual words that explain your feelings. And the closeness magnifies after your loved one receives your letter.

02

Peace of mind

Inner calm is the result of knowing that your sentiments are thoughtfully expressed and securely preserved. Specifically for Legacy Letters, knowing that the aftermath of your death will be punctuated (for them) with your personal connection is a relief.

03

Gratitude + Joy

As you reflect on and articulate the substance of your most valued relationships, you will undoubtedly unearth many spots of gratitude and joy. Letter-writing is a profoundly joyful way to invest in the relationships for which you're most grateful.

Cultivating meaningful connection one letter at a time.

Lindsay is an excellent, thoughtful teacher—her style is exquisite.

— Jeanne S., Forever Letter workshop participant

Lindsay’s letter writing skills, insights and ability to connect with my inner soul are amazing. She read my heart and put words to thoughts that I couldn’t begin to communicate. She’s inspiring, smart, focused and totally directed in the most kind and productive manner. She has been a gift to me!!!

— J.D., Forever Letter client

Lindsay’s patience and gentle prompting made such an overwhelming subject approachable. She has such a gift.

— Patricia H., Forever Letter client

A very worthwhile, super supportive and creative approach to writing. Lindsay is an incredibly helpful guide to doing something I’ve always found so hard to do.

— M.C., Forever Letter workshop participant

Lindsay’s advice on what to include in my letter was invaluable. I feel at peace with having conveyed my feelings, as I really wrestled with how to handle it.

— Molly L., Forever Letter workshop participant

Your written words are the gift of forever.

FAQs

What do your services cost?

Experience has taught me that each letter-writing situation is unique. My standard $150/hr rate is how I design price-packages for each letter-writing offering. Inquire directly with me via email at connect@theeverwell.com or by scheduling a Discovery Call.

Do you offer forever letter writing workshops or retreats?

Yes! And they are my favorite! I offer day-long (3-5 hours) and weekend-long retreats, as well as 3-part workshop series. Inquire directly with me via email at connect@theeverwell.com or by scheduling a Discovery Call.

Do you offer other writing services?

Yes, I also ghost write for toasts, eulogies, obituaries, occasion letters, Forever Letters to aging parents, or the like. My standard $150/hr rate applies. Inquire directly with me via email at connect@theeverwell.com or by scheduling a Discovery Call.

What are my options if I want to work with Lindsay one-on-one?

I offer (3) one-on-one packages.

PACKAGE 1: The Independent Letter is for those wanting framework and personalized inspiration to independently write their Forever Letter. This $300 package includes: a 2-hour live Clarity Call over Zoom with Lindsay to help shape your ideas and sentiments; Lindsay’s detailed call notes and insights; and an easy-to-follow template for your Forever Letter writing.

PACKAGE 2: The Polished Letter is for those wanting to write their Forever Letter with the fine-tuning and feedback of an English teacher + writer. This $500 package includes everything listed in Independent Letter PLUS (1) round of Lindsay's editorial polish.

PACKAGE 3: The Custom Letter is for those wanting their thoughts efficiently transformed into their ideal Forever Letter. This $750 package includes a 2-hour live Clarity Call over Zoom with Lindsay to gather info and become acquainted with your unique voice; a ghost-written Forever Letter by Lindsay within 10 days; (1) round of client feedback on first draft; and (1) re-write by Lindsay into a polished copy.

What is ghost-writing?

When a professional writer writes on your behalf, as if they are you. For a Custom Letter, I will write your letter as if I'm you, based on all the details and information collected in the Clarity Call.

Can I read examples of your letter-writing?

I'm happy to share examples of letters I've written after we've connected on a Discovery Call. Because of the highly personal nature of my clients' letters, and my commitment to maintaining confidentiality, examples are restricted to my personal letters. My writing can be found on my Substack and YouTube channel.

Why leave a Legacy Letter?

The aftermath of death, for the grieving survivors, is largely administrative, and the focus is mostly on one kind of worth—one’s net worth: assets, estate, ownership, inheritance, etc. There's a huge gaping hole when it comes to personal worth: the value of who you’ve been, and how you’ve loved, and the worth of your unique parent-child relationship. Wills, by design, are void of emotion. And yet, emotions are, arguably, the most valuable part of human life.

Including a Foever Letter in your end-of-life planning, shines light on and honors a lifetime of parental love, devotion and connection. And it enables your voice and sentiments to guide your child through the process of estate administration after your death.

Will my Legacy Letter be included in my will?

Great question! You'd think it should be. The truth is that a love letter is not a legal matter. Lawyers must keep emotions out of the will entirely. Trust and estate plans and directives must be black and white; and emotions, by nature, live in the grays of life. After writing your Forever Letter, you can request that your lawyer keeps it as a "side letter" that gets delivered alongside the will. Or, alternatively, my recommendation is that you keep a distinct folder or fireproof safe at home that your next of kin knows to open at the time of your passing. Your Forever Letter can live there until it's read by the intended recipient.

I didn't know legacy letters was a thing. Is it?

Well, sort of. Ethical wills, also referred to as legacy letters, are a place to capture one’s personal values, beliefs, love, gratitude and apologies. And the practice of writing them has existed for millennia, but is an uncommon practice in the modern age of end-of-life preparations. But the practice of encapsulating one’s experience of parenthood in a direct love letter to one’s child is a practice that some think to do independently, but it's not protocol with will and estate planning. (Will & Estate Lawyers typically aren't interested in or equipped to handle the emotional side of deathI've asked many of them, and they're the first to say it.)

The term Forever Letter is one that I've coined, and my hope is to normalize love letter writing as part of end-of-life planning. To learn more, I describe the genesis of Forever Letters here. And I open up about my experience of writing Forever Letters to my three kids here.

If I have more than one child and want to write individual letters to each, how does pricing work ?

Each letter option outlines the price for (1) letter with one recipient. That's because each recipient of a Forever Letter requires their own 2-hour Zoom call to gather all the details of the relationship that are required to write the letter. For each requested sibling letter, clients receive a $100 discount on listed pricing.

How do I begin?

Let's talk and see if we're meant to be letter-writing partners. Connect directly with me via email at connect@theeverwell.com or by scheduling a free Discovery Call below.

Lindsay Hurty, Ed.M., champions letter-writing as a practice of meaningful connection and transformative communication. Also, she's a Harvard-educated self-development writer, educator and speaker. Lindsay is a former high school English teacher who founded Everwell and Self School. Her writing can be found on the Becoming Everwell Substack publication and her YouTube channel. Learn her personal story here.